What does it mean to “know” someone or something? Have you ever thought about the word “know” and how our modern use of it has become lazy and overly broad? Let me explain what I mean by that.
If someone were to ask me, “Hey, do you know the song ‘Africa’ by Toto?” I’d answer, “Sure, I know that song. It’s like, “….something something something … down in Africa.” Now, I can certainly recognize a few aspects of the song – its intro, melody, the singers voice – but my “knowing” of the song is limited more to recognition or awareness. I can’t recite more lyrics than I did above; I don’t know when it was written, or what it’s even about. Sure, I could look all that info up on Wikipedia and work to memorize all the lyrics and melody so I can belt it out on karaoke night, but to be perfectly honest, I don’t want to take the time to do all that.
It’s exactly that lack of caring that is the difference between “knowing” and “knowing.” We have robbed the meaning of the word “know” of a critical aspect by using it almost exclusively as a synonym for “aware.” Think about it for a moment. How often do you simply mean “I’m aware” when you say “I know”? Futhermore, how many times do we even say “I know” dismissively, like when someone informs you of something that you’re aware of, but don’t care about? We would be better off, I think, if we stopped using “I know” when what we really mean is “I’m aware.”
Why am I saying all this? Because I’m concerned that our misuse of “know” can cause misunderstanding of how Jesus relates to us. It’s true that Jesus, being fully God, is omniscient (He knows all things), but when we think about Jesus knowing us and our thoughts, words, deeds and needs, we often settle for Him simply being aware of them, but not caring about them. This is the real difference and why it’s so important not to diminish the meaning of the word. To truly “know” is at the very least to be both aware and to care. This fuller meaning of the word matters a lot when we contemplate how Jesus relates to us.
In the second and third chapters of the book of Revelation, Jesus commands John the Apostle to write letters to seven churches that existed in the first century in what is now western Turkey. While each letter contains specific commendations, warnings and encouragements for each individual church, there is a common refrain that ties them all together – Jesus says to each of them “I know…” He knows their suffering, their needs, their sins, their future; and it’s not just an aloof awareness of those things, Jesus cares about them. He cares deeply about His Church, His bride, and just as he cared for those seven churches 2000 years ago, He is aware and cares about His Church today. Let’s take that a step further and acknowledge that Jesus is aware and cares about every one of His children who comprise the Church. He knows us – our thoughts, words deeds and needs.
What does this mean for us practically?
With regard to our sinful thoughts, words and deeds, Jesus has proven He is aware and cares by coming to die on the cross for our sins so we don’t have to. He has proven He is aware and cares because His Holy Spirit has come to convict us of sin and empower us to live obediently “in the Spirit” so that our thoughts, words and deeds are pleasing to Him.
With regard to our needs – including suffering and pain – Jesus proves He is aware and cares because He has both given us the Holy Spirit, the Comforter, and has established His Church – the family and people of God – who are called to support, comfort and love one another. Jesus proves He is aware and cares because He has given us His Word, the Bible, to teach, correct, encourage and equip us to live hope and joy-filled lives in the midst of trials and tribulations as we await the promised return of our Lord and Savior with whom we get to spend eternity because He has reconciled us to Himself through His blood.
Finally, may we all “know” – be aware and care – that “Jesus knows,” and live accordingly in gratitude, love and obedience.