The art of giving

Is it really better to give than receive? What do the Bible and history teach us?

Examples of the generous giving of resources – such as time, talents, money, homes (for the gathering of Christians or housing of “strangers and sojourners”) – for the worship of God, the spread of the Gospel and caring for people is all over the Bible, and we have the privilege of being a part of that ongoing legacy in a variety of ways. 

However, for many people, the first thing that comes to mind when the topic of giving in church is brought up is a metal or wooden plate, or maybe a velvety felt bag with wooden handles being shoved in their face as the pastor or an elder elucidate the importance of giving until it hurts and how, as Americans, we have so much comparative wealth; and, this recollection often elicits feelings of guilt or anger, or even distrust in the people/organization they are giving to, or distrust in God to “keep His end of the deal” with financial blessings. There’s also, I believe, a widely-held misconception that the amount we give must be a hard and fast 10 percent every month of the year, every year, until our eulogy is read. 

While faithful, predictable giving is certainly helpful to a church when it comes to setting an annual budget (which allows for paying and hiring staff, purchasing equipment and consumables, paying rent or a mortgage, funding other ministries, etc.), that “sustained” giving is not the only way we can give. Another way is “specific” giving, such as when there’s a particular need brought up – like a building fund, a sound equipment refresh or a functioning TV for the kids’ ministry. This type of giving can be in addition to sustained giving, but it can also be a way for people who don’t give on the regular to help meet a clear need. 

Sustained giving is probably the most common (and helpful) way to see your local church thrive, but there are pitfalls to avoid. If your “tithing” has become so automatic that you don’t even think about it anymore – rather, it’s just a line item in your personal budget like your internet or cell phone bills – or if you’re doing it grudgingly, then it’s probably not even healthy for your soul or truly an act of worship. Similarly, specific or sporadic giving is great to meet tangible needs and help train our hearts to hear and obey the prompting of the Lord, but we have to be sure it’s coming from a heart of worship and not from coercion – either you being guilted into emptying your wallet, or trying to force God to rain money down on you from heaven because you “sowed a seed of faith.” As God’s Word says in 1 Corinthians 9:7, “Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.”

Some people have taken this verse as a “get out of giving” card in that they claim they cannot ever give because it would not be done with a right heart, or that God has never prompted them to do so. We have to see though that the Apostle Paul, when writing to the church in Corinth, said “Each one must give…” The implication is that Christians will all give, but it can look different for each of us “as we have decided in our hearts,” and it needs to be done with joy and willingness.

As with many aspects of our Christian faith, doctrine and theology, there’s a good middle road that’s sometimes hard to stay on, and we are at risk of falling into a legalistic or liberal ditch on either side. This is true of giving in that we can look at verses such as Malachi 3:6-12 (testing God by giving, and then Him pouring down blessings from heaven) and 1 Cor. 6:9 (sowing sparingly vs. bountifully) and come to an understanding that too closely resembles false “health, wealthy and prosperity” teaching. However, those verses are in the Bible, and there are many Christians out there, myself included, who have “put God to the test” in this way and, over time and are walking in what we believe to be obedience to Him, have seen God bless us in very real ways, including financial.

The point is this: the Bible is clear – Jesus Himself said, “It is more blessed to give than to receive,” and the giving of our “time, talents and treasure” is nothing short of an act of worship and obedience that trains our hearts to trust in and depend upon God. Finally, and practically, generous, sacrificial giving is the way in which the people of God have been able to conduct worship (from the times of Tabernacle to the present day), spread the Gospel, and care for widows, orphans and others in need for thousands of years. The question for us today is this: how are we being called to join them?